• Happy July! $50 Your Way Giveaway!!

    July $50 Giveaway

    Hello Peanuts! Happy July Giveaway post! I hope you all have something exciting planned for the holiday. Maybe even a vacation? A week-long vacation? Being retired means ….. ummmmm vacation 24/7.  So, the 4th will be the same as today!! But with sparklers. I can’t wait for the 4th, not for a BBQ or picnic but so I can finally have the “can we see fireworks from the deck?” question answered. I sure hope so. Wouldn’t that be amazing?  No crowds to navigate, no driving to the perfect spot. Fingers crossed. I mean with this view….. I should see something…… right?? I’ll let ya know. Next up; today is The Husband’s birthday. Happy 65th Birthday to my split apart! My house update for June; windows mostly in. The installers are insane on their ladders 3 stories up. (I wanted to call their mothers!). Still a few more to go. I have to admit; new windows was a great investment. The house is quieter and the temperature remains constant all day! All of the rot around the windows makes me really nervous what the siding guys will find. Fingers crossed again! The inside doors are almost all replaced and the carpet?…

  • Living In Two Houses!

    Bras

    Y’all remember how I’ve had so many months to pack for this move? Well, I’ve learned a lot. Number one. I am a HORRIBLE packer. I am 100% the shining example of what NOT to do! So basically we are living in two houses. Neither house has enough to really ‘live in’. Boxes in both house piled high. Marked “kitchen” “master bedroom” blah blah blah……. trust me WRITE every little item down on the box or you WILL be digging in boxes.  Pots and pans?  Yeah…. who knows!! All I am sure of is that they are in one of those dozens of boxes marked ‘kitchen’ is my favorite coffee cup.  Ahhhh but the BIG question here is ….. IS THAT )@&$*((P@* box in California?! Or is it in IDAHO!??!?!? Case in point. I drove to California to spend Mother’s Day with my kids. Day one, exhausted and wanting to get off the road I sat on the couch only to remember that the television is in Idaho!!  Which really doesn’t matter because we turned off the cable HERE!!! The next morning, I realized the toaster ……. yeah….. it’s in Idaho. At least I had enough coffee AND a coffee pot…

  • Improving Your Communication Skills Can Help You Have A Healthier Relationship

    4 Things Every Couple Should Discuss Before Marriage

    Better communication is the key to a lot of positive things in life and understanding how to improve your skills can really benefit you and helping you to have a healthier relationship with others. Talk about your feelings. When talking about sensitive topics with your partner, it is easy for them to feel like you are blaming them for whatever went wrong. One way to get around this problem is by reframing things through the use of “I” statements. For instance, you could say something like, “I feel overwhelmed by the housework and could really use some help.” This gives your partner a chance to understand your feelings without feeling like you are blaming them for the problem. Instead of causing arguments, framing your conversations in this way can open up the doorway to meaningful communication, often helping to resolve issues without a fight. Learn how to listen. Most disagreements are the result of partners not listening to one another. Have you ever been in the midst of an argument and realized that you really aren’t hearing what your partner is saying? Instead, you are focused on what you are going to say next when they are done talking. Unfortunately,…