Handling Stress This Christmas Season
I love Christmas time. I love the decorations and the music. I love the hustle and bustle of shopping. Now, with that said Sandpoint Idaho is a very laid back sleepy little town. Sooooo MY hustle and bustle is very tame compared to California. THAT, my friend is SOME bustle in my hustle.
I used to go Black Friday shopping every year. I even talked my daughter Selena into a (I do mean A) Black Friday 3 am shopping day. She hated every. single. second. You can NOT bribe, pay, entice, or cajole that girl to a Black Friday shopping trip NO MATTER how good the sale is. (Pfffftttt is she really my DAUGHTER??!)
As usual the squirrels got me going off in another direction. WELL, technically Selena does feel stressed shopping in crowds so it’s not too far off-topic. (Whew that was a quick save!)
I have a couple of ideas to help with Holiday Stress.
Let’s start with a super easy one. A long hot soak in a bath. Add some Christmas bath salts. Maybe a glass of wine. Soft music. Whooooa I might just fall asleep thinking about this one.
Tip Number One
Mediation. I know what you are thinking. Mediating is hard. It’s NOT. I promise. Mediation is the art of doing nothing. Just relax. Just sit back and do nothing. Be calm. Unclench your jaw (THIS is a hard one for me) close your eyes. BE STILL. Do NOTHING.
If mediation isn’t for you how about trying to mediate with my favorite form of stress relief. Magic Eggs! Say whaaaa????? Connie, are you saying you have a pair of magic eggs? Yes, YES I do AND NO! They are not pregnancy eggs either. THAT would cause me immense stress.
Tip Number Two
Fidget Toys. In particular Magic Eggs are made of either a dark or a light wood. Each handcrafted egg has a magnet inside. Magic eggs fit in the palm of your hand. They are smooth to hold. BUT THEY are so much FUN to play with, either in your hand or on a flat surface.
I keep my set on my desk, if I’m stuck on a project or stressed over a deadline. Or when THE HUSBAND is getting on my last nerve!? (Wait did I type that out loud?? BAD Connie. BAD! True, but BAD Connie!) I hold my Magic Eggs; I spin them in my hand or on the table. It’s addicting. It’s like the fidget toys that Alice had so much fun with, but for ADULTS. (Okay, technically kids and adults would find great joy with these, but I’m not sharing) There are two Magic Eggs in each package.
Having these beautifully designed Magic Eggs sitting on my desk remind me that self-care is important. Added bonus? These eggs make me laugh. I can’t help it. They just make me happy.
11 Comments
Tamra Phelps
The stress this time of year has gotten out of hand. I swear, I think of just going on strike at Christmas.
heather
I used to hit the Black Friday sales way back on the day now I avoid them like the plague. I love those eggs and have been seeing them everywhere lately.
Connie: The Head Peanut
I can’t even tell you how much I love these eggs. WHO KNEW!?
l p
thanks for the idea – and the chuckle.
Connie: The Head Peanut
I can’t help laugh. They get to spinning and I can’t stop laughing. Laughing is really good for stress, right?
Tamra Phelps
I did not even know there were magic eggs! At this point, I’d try real eggs! They look pretty neat. I’d try them/
Connie: The Head Peanut
These are so fun to hold. Spin ’em. They are so calming!
Terri Quick
Thank you for sharing
Connie: The Head Peanut
You’re very welcome.
gloria patterson
I almost hate to tell you but I don’t think a lot of people go shopping on black friday anymore. I remember my nieces would meet at 4 am ready to hit the sales………….. Today you could not get them out of bed at that hour.
A long hot soak in a bath – IF I could get down I would have to call EMS to get me out. NO FLEX
Years ago I had a rubber ball filled with sand. I would play with it at my desk and bitch about something………… then one day I ended up with sand all over my desk. Today i keep a couple rubber balls to roll or pull or something…………
Truth Christmas does not stress me out. We just have a couple of kids left to buy for and that is quick and easy. We don’t exchange gifts as adults………. the old if you want it or need you have already bought it.
Connie: The Head Peanut
Ohhhhh no more black Friday’s? Ohh that makes me sad. It probably makes Selena very happy. LOL